It’s been said that people can sense when you’re smiling as you speak. They can sense and absorb your joy, passion, and happiness. Your enthusiasm to tackle anything – no matter how difficult, is infectious.
I am always taken back when people chuckle when I’m talking with them. They don’t expect reason, rationale, or – joy. They don’t expect to speak with someone who presents themselves as a friend. They seem rather shocked that someone is happy to talk with them – despite the difficulty of the conversation.
This doesn’t equate to being easy or a pushover. I have a high tolerance. A long fuse. A stockpile of patience. Until the moment when I don’t – and it takes a lot.
So start every conversation with a smile – then see where it takes you. You may be pleasantly surprised.
